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New Site Launch Today

2011-01-10T19:20:00.000-08:00

Hello everyone,

David Sullivan here from good old Saint John, New Brunswick, Canada. How's it goin' eh?

A couple of weeks ago, I launched my latest site, http://www.thedave.org

Over the next, while I will be pulling my different Blogs, fan pages, photo galleries and other material into this one main site. For now, I am simply linking from the main site to my other blogs such as this one.

Dave from Saint John

http://www.thedave.org

Photography - Getting Exposure

2010-05-06T07:25:00.000-07:00

Did you like the play on words in the title. I did. So for many years now I have been dabbling in photography and this year I took a leap and dove right in. I finally spent the money and bought a wonderful prosumer level Nikon D90 DSLR. For the record I love my Nikon. Feature rich, easy to work with and it really does make photography fun.

Now with that out of the way let me get to the real reason you are reading this.

Because I want to increase my exposure. I started a local business called Odyssey Photography in Saint John, NB. We have a WordPress site, a facebook fan page and some listings on ebay for a couple of our favorite prints. I am listing these links below and I hope you find them useful and wonderful.

On our Wordpress blog you will find, Daily stories, photography tips, what we are working on currently and our Print that we are offering for sale.

WordPress Blog

(This is our main site right now) - http://ephotographystudios.wordpress.com

Facebook Fan Page.

(Fan yourself to this page for regular updates) http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/pages/Saint-John-NB/Odyssey-Photography/343165732324?ref=ts

our current ebay listings

8x12 Print of - Galasia Nera (Greek - Blue Waters) by John Papadopoulos

8x12 Print of - Resting Beauty by David AA Sullivan

8x12 Print of - The Dirty Giant by David AA Sullivan

8x12 Print of - Playful by David AA Sullivan

Enjoy.

David Sullivan

Odyssey Photography

506 608 2418

2010-05-06T07:09:00.001-07:00

wow have I ever been slacking on this blog. That was over a year ago. I week later, March Friday the 13th 2009, to be exact. I realized that was going nowhere. I also met another wonderful lady that has changed my life. We went for breakfast that life altering morning and have never looked back. We have been together for over a year at this point. We have faced some simple demons and some not so simple trials. We have had good times and bad times. We have lived, laughed and loved. Above all else we decided that together we want to make it work. We both brought our baggage and together we are helping each other sort it all out. One day at a time no matter what may come.

It's not easy choosing to make it work. Many people glide around hoping things work. That approach doesn't work for everyone. We live in such an age that we have access to so much information. There is no reason for us not to understand how people work. People are not Machines. We have a physical side, mental logical side and a mental emotional side. In most cases these 3 sides are never in equal balance. More often, than not our emotional side overrides our logical and physical sides. We need to be aware of this and ready. The resulting static electricity or stress is deadly for relationships surviving on pure luck.

Many people don't realize that people suffering from any form of imbalance often can't control their own feelings. However if they have uncontrollable feelings, they must be responsible to get help and to start the process of becoming responsible and accountable.

These are the lessons I have learned in the last year.

I hope this helps anyone that reads it.

Stress and clinical depression are running rampant in our society today.

Everyone should research these topics and become aware of how they present.

More than ever people need to be educated on the root problems.

Once you know what you are dealing with the rest becomes reasonable.

Continuing the Odyssey

David Sullivan

An interesting encounter

2009-03-02T02:45:00.000-08:00

So in the last couple of days I have had the pleasure of meeting a Lady.
This Lady is captivating. She is wholesome and inspiring.

For now this is all I have to say.

Feb 27th 2009,
The encounter - An unexpected dance, with an unexpected person, in an unexpected place

Feb 28th 2009,
The First Date - An evening of Dinner, Drinks and fantastic Dancing.

March the 1st 2009,
Everything in the Known Universe Changed.
Discovery, there is someone out there.. Alive and willing to live.

Stay tuned.....

My Philosophy

2009-03-02T02:36:00.000-08:00

If there is only one thing in my blog you ever read I hope this is it.

Ignore the Nay Sayers. Never accept abuse of any sort from anyone.

Listen to your heart. Think with your head.
Involve passion at all times and truly love your partner.
Give them more reasons to be a greater person.
Encourage them everyday.
Support them with your heart, body and soul.

Above all. Don't be afraid to challenge them, play with them and find a way to laugh and cry with them as much as you can.

Imagine you know that these are your last days to be alive together and love them like there may not be a tomorrow.

Learn to forgive, understand and be compassionate and teach by example.
Remember that everything you do is an example for somebody.
Be the best example you can for good.
Be honest and steadfast. Be true to yourself.

Accept this universal truth
Some will like you and some won't.
SO WHAT!

Some people will not be ready for this kind of love. Don't worry. Keep looking.
There is someone out there looking for you too.
Never give up. Search UNTIL you find them.

And live your life along the way.

Learn to listen. Really listen. The universe is giving you everything you need
Listen and filter. Challenge the thoughts not the words. -- Always challenge.

A few great quotes from a few amazing people...

Things not only have to be right. They have to look right. (Perception) -- My Parents
Go for the goal, but remember to enjoy every second of the journey -- Barb
When the WHAT is big enough the HOW becomes clear. -- Stephen

Love yourself, your friends and your family. In the end they are the only ones that count.

My name is David Sullivan. I am a Son, a father, a friend and a partner.
I am a very blessed man.

Take these words. read them again. find the thoughts behind them and challenge them to see if they can help you.

I give these wisdoms to anyone willing to read them, with all my love.
Dave

PS Practice everyday being kinder and more understanding. Some of us find this harder than others but will continue UNTIL we get it right.

Arise from the Ashes of great Pheonix and take your place in cosmos

2009-03-02T02:27:00.000-08:00

The world has changed and I with it !!!

Wow. It has been a while since I felt like blogging. Much in my life has changed since last I wrote. I have become separated from my Wife of 13 years. I have moved on. I have struggled like many before me and I would like to believe I have grown much.

I have taken a detour in my career path, watched depression over whelm a loved one to dangerous levels and witnessed their slow climbing up out of the ashes. I have lost a dearly loved relative to Leukemia and discovered how to love myself again.

My name is David Sullivan and I love people and life.
In this blog I will share my little lessons and wonderful experiences when ever I feel the need.

today I wrote a quick piece about some things I believe I have learned.

I will post it next -- Called My Philosophy

The Richard Benefit Poker Tournament

2008-02-13T10:13:00.000-08:00

Congratulation to Jason Richard, family and friends for hosting a wonderful poker tournament at Bow Ties in Saint John on Sunday 9th Feb 2008

I had a terrific time and met some of the nicest people I have ever met.

Count me for more tournaments my friend

So I took a few pictures and though I should post them here.
Enjoy

2008-02-09T12:23:00.000-08:00

I can remember in high school when teachers had us complete a series of tests to help us decide what career paths we should pursue.

Funny as this may seem; my scores in high school were the exact opposite of what they are now. I am quite impressed with how accurate these test have become.

My key point here is that these test tell us what we are better suited for with our current experience and aptitudes. They don't tell us what we will be good at later.

I hope that we age like fine wines. Developing our flavors and colors as we get older. The more exposure I have had to the business world the more rounded and capable I have become. Back in high school I was told I should be a teacher or a priest. Now being the programmer / Analyst that I am, I was impressed to see the results that you see in the image above.

I have a deep rooted love for working with people, leading, managing and technology. Seems to fit the profile I would say.

*** You're always better off knowing a little about yourself and a lot about who you WANT to be.
Set goals, dream big.Believe you will be and it will come true.

2008-01-31T05:23:00.000-08:00

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Code comments and the lessons I am learning

2008-01-31T04:43:00.000-08:00

As a programmer I am always expected to comment my codes. Obviously this makes my code easier to understand for others. Good comments are also to help me read my code in the future.

*** Now for todays lesson.

My best friend Stephen Nickerson was doing a code review for me and had this to share with me.
When you first start writing a new class it is a good practice to write a brief paragraph at the top of this class. Of course this is common sense. Normally I would eventually write a paragraph describing what the class does.

Now here is the gold nugget. He taught me that the very first thing you should write in this paragraph should be "What is my goal in writing this class."

If you get one thing from this, get this!

Start every Class with a small paragraph stating "My goal when writing this class is ..."

Sounds simple does it not? Well it is. The reality is that the goal that you have in mind for this class is way more important than the details about how you did it. It works like a mission statement for a business. I have found, now when I type the words . " My goal for this class is to ..." I establish my mission. That's right. Things become amazingly clearer.

It is like active negotiation with myself. Instead of getting caught up in the details I agree up front that this is my goal. Now everything must point toward that goal.

I have caught myself many times when power programming having to go back to methods I wrote, to comment them. While writing this short paragraph describing the goal of the method I formulated a better way to accomplish the goal.

Last but not least always add your name and the date to the end of your class opening comments.

A few thoughts here. Adding your name and the date does a couple of things. First it establishes hey I wrote this. This is my brain child. Next it allows people to know who to ask for advise in the future when working on similar tasks or modifying this code. It also allows you to go back and review your work years from now and to see where you were and how far you have come.

Last thought on this. Having your name in the code is like "Coca Cola" being printed on you soda can. That is right. You can build brand recognition. You never know who may someday be reading that code and saying man i wish we had that program Mr. XYZ here with us. He obviously figured this stuff out before. It could be worth our time to find him and offer him a contract to help us.

Just my thoughts. Be bold enough to carve a new trail. Be accountable to your actions and be willing to accept the pat on the back or the kick in the butt. Eventually you will learn how to get more pats on the back.

DIR-655 Router and Vonage no incoming calls.

2008-01-17T14:53:00.000-08:00

Sharing the wealth of technical topics through blogging by David Sullivan.

DIR-655 Router and Vonage. Outgoing calls work fine but my incoming calls don't work.

If you have just reset or installed a DIR-655 and your vonage phone stops working I have your reason.

this router has a setting for enable "SIP" this needs to be disabled. look around and find the "SIP" and disable it.

Note. this is not a typo. It is "SIP". There is also an SPI this is not the one.

Disable "SIP" and all will start working.

Good Luck.

How to get rid of head lice. Remove Lice. Kill lice...

2007-11-23T20:16:00.000-08:00

OK. This article needs to be written.
As a parent I have to say that I understand how frustrating head lice can be.

When you have school aged children, head lice are going to happen.

Now first things first. My wife and I have had good results using the over the counter Nix, and the other major brand lice shampoo treatment. However; these treatments are very expensive and completely depend on how well you follow the instructions.

The other thing to remember is that for some people they work and for some they don't.

In this article I will explain why that is. And how to always have it work.

I have read and tried many funny lice remedies. We have tried the mayonnaise and the Vaseline. We have tried the tea tree oil shampoo and conditioner and the nix, etc ....

I personally have read hundreds of articles, papers and blogs about this subject. Then one day the wisdom of ages came to me from a young hair dresser in training. The day before, her and her friend had taken a course about head lice. What she taught me in those 2 minutes explained everything. Here is the reality. Are you ready. Pay attention. After this you will never have a problem removing head lice again.

Nits(eggs), hatch in about a week.
After hatching the nymphs (baby lice) take about a week to mature.(begin laying eggs)

Now for the magic.
If you kill all the lice today. Any eggs left will hatch within a week.
and by day 6 you will have no more eggs just adults ready to lay eggs in a day.

So the easy thing to do would be to kill them all every 3 days.
Do this 5 times and you guarantee that you have killed all the lice and you have killed all the newborns before maturity.

I recommend 5 times.

Now. how do I kill them you ask?
What if I told you that lice can only hold their breath for approximately half an hour.
Here is the best part. Go to your local dollar store or cheapy McCheapoo store and get the thickest cheapest hair conditioner you can purchase in bulk and a bunch of shower caps.

Shampoo, rinse and then soak the hair with copious amounts of conditioner. Wrap the hair up in the shower cap and go watch a movie or read a book for an hour or more.

You have just killed all the hatched lice.

*** You don't need special treatments to kill them.
*** get yourself a good metal nit pick comb.
*** comb the hair while watching a movie.
*** do this every night.

Most important thing to remember is to mark your calender and make sure you retreat, super condition for an hour, every 3 or 4 days. do this for at least 5 treatments and your lice will be gone.

Also remember to treat linens, pillow cases, stuffed toys and any hats that your children might use daily. Wash them and then dry them for at least an hour in the hot air dryer.

Put all stuffed toys, hats and other items that come in contact with the children's heads in garbage bags. Put them away for a few days. Lice can not live away from the host food supply for very long.

Baby lice or nymphs are about the size of a pinhead when they hatch, and quickly mature into adult lice in about a week. Adult lice can then live for about 30 days, with females laying up to 8 nits a day, repeating the cycle. --- Quote from another lice article.

At this point the only thing that counts is how thorough you are at treating your children.
If you follow this guide step by step, you will be lice free.

The next thing to do is to make the children where the hair up. Super condition soak for an hour every day or two and be diligent in checking their heads.

I really hope this article help all the frustrated parents out there.

Remember the cheapest, thickest hair conditioner and some shower caps are all you need to destroy the lice attack.

Funny words of wisdom from the most steadfast source. AKA My wonderful wife.

2007-11-07T10:22:00.000-08:00

Today my wife and I were enjoying a wonderful lunch at a local cafe called "Sessions Cafe".
We had eaten there once before and the food is delightful. Our first visit we ordered small personal plates of the house nachos and the Soup de Jour. Let me inject here that the elegant oven baked nachos were and continue to be the tastiest crispy nachos I have ever had the pleasure of enjoying. Today indulged ourselves with a large plate of nachos for an appetizer and two orders of the special, real ham on swiss with sauteed red peppers on focaccia bread. Now imagine, a small well lit cafe atmosphere, with classic upbeat folk music floating in the background. Sounds like an enjoyable lunch, does it not? Jackie, my wife and I thought so.

infamous quote -- Groin grabbingly delicious. -- Homer Simpson as the food critic.

I tell you all that so that I may tell you this. With a mouth full of food and a mug full of Cafe Mocha, I was totally unprepared. Jackie leans over toward me and says "Hey, what did the medicine man tell his wife to get her to stop bugging him?" At this point I did what every good husband should do. I shrugged and gave the ever curious whimsical look. "Don't squeeze the shaman!" she replies with a giggle. I instantly got the reference to the old Squeeze the Charman toilet paper ads and chuckled. Thus causing me to mildly choke on my nachos.

This lady will never stop surprising me. Ten years of marriage and two children later she is still the jewel of my eye. She also reminded me of another classic quip that goes -

Better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

To my wonderful wife today, thank you for the life, the love and all the humor. Your loving husband Dave.

Seniors and the mass of knowledge they could share through blogging.

2007-11-06T06:21:00.000-08:00

Seniors and the mass of knowledge they could share through blogging by David Sullivan.

Everyone knows someone who is opinionated. I myself am very opinionated. I also have a drive or desire to learn. This need sends me on educational journeys daily. Some days I research card games, other days I'm captivated by space exploration. Because of my desire to learn I have amassed a wealth of general knowledge.

Believe it or not there are many thousands of knowledgeable people that collect and store libraries full of information and never get the chance to share it. Would you not agree that if they would simply host a blog, the rest of the world could better themselves from their knowledge.

My wife has recently approached me about working with senior citizens. She used to volunteer in a senior care home. Many times a week she would take whole afternoons to read to them, share with them, do crafts with them, sing with them and even teach them and help them to use computers for emailing relatives. I wonder how many seniors, if given the opportunity, would enjoy sharing their stories through blogs.

Could you imagine the quality of blogs we would begin to see. I don't know about you, but my grandmother was an incredibly picky lady when it came to grammar and proper use of language. She could always catch us with old famous rules like, "Aint Aint a word" or never end a sentence with the word "ones". To this day, I see her influence in my work.

Another wonderful thing about seniors is their flare for romance. Now, I'm not turning mushy here. Hear me out. I have had the pleasure of working as an in home care aid for a senior couple. The gentleman had a stroke. He was paralyzed on one side of his body. However; his mind and memories were mostly intact. I would spend hours listening to him tell me stories about when he was a young man. You could feel his passion when he spoke about his darling wife and how they came to be married. You could almost hear the music when he told the story about meeting her at a social, now we call them dances. He could tell a tale that would capture your imagination. He fought in World War II. He and his wife raised 5 very beautiful, intelligent church going daughters, who in turn all married and raise families. At one time in his life he was an Olympic speed skater for Canada.

As a young man with a desire for a family and a rich life of my own I was inspired by this man and his history. In a world where the toughest survive, this man, this pillar, taught me that tough comes in many forms. You don't have to be the biggest or the smartest or even the meanest. You must be willing to carry on. Persistence is the key to survival. Set a goal. Visualize the goal. Never take your eyes off the prize.

His advice to me I will pass on to you. Be you young man or woman the advice is the same. Set your goals, chase your goals and let nothing stop you from achieving your goals. Do this with a good heart. Be honest and hardworking. Be creative and innovative if you must. Have integrity, character and above all else, love. It has taken me many years to understand exactly what he was trying to teach me. Now at the age of 34, with my wonderful wife and our astounding children I can honestly say, I believe I understand.

To bring my points together, we have an abundance of seniors. These seniors have thousands of chapters in their personal stories. All too often seniors can be overlooked and forgotten. If we could help them to voice their tales to the world through blogging, we could accomplish two wonderful things. one, we could add purpose and encourage the feelings of need in our elders. Second we could tap the untold depths of ancient wisdom. Maybe just maybe, someday one of those untold stories may appear on the top of a Google search page just in time to inspire one of our many youths.

My name is David Sullivan and I put this challenge to you.
Find a place or person that could use this information and start them on their journey.
Read and reread this article. Let it inspire you to go and make a difference in someones life, today.